Self-love is a more stable construct than self-compassion while you can choose to be compassionate towards yourself in any moment, self-love is probably something that you will need to build up self-compassion vs self-esteem and confidence. 2 compassionate love according to psychologist elaine hatfield (n d ), compassionate love has traits such as attachment, intimacy, trust, affection and mutual respect it usually arises out of the feeling of mutual understanding and shared respect for each other. Compassionate love is a kind of love that can be expressed to anyone, even people we struggle with, and anyone can express it it is an expansive love that can enhance our personal and social well-being and our feelings of interconnectedness with others.
Self report measures for love and compassion research: compassion/compassionate love compassionate love for humanity scale reference: sprecher, s & fehr, b (2005) compassionate love for close others and humanity. Without compassionate love the couple may experience a more shallow type of love in which only the materialistic and physical parts of the relationship matter in contrast, without the passion a compassionate love may feel less fulfilling to the couple. Companionate love refers to the feelings of intimacy and affection we feel for another person when we care deeply for the person but do not necessarily experience passion or arousal in his or her presence companionate love, as in the love between two best friends,. Compassionate love has been identified as one of the major types of love experienced in relationships (berscheid, 2010), but one that has been overshadowed by the study of romantic love in this article, we review research on compassionate love, a relative newcomer to the close relationships field, and present findings that more fully flesh-out the nature of the experience of this kind of love.
Compassion, love & respect is true to its namepro viding compassion, love and respect to all who are blessed by the posts created therefor i'm all about compassion and love and kindness says a lot about the character we all posses barbara pryor-smith october 20, 2016. Romantic love vs companionate love posted on october 1, 2013 by victoriaruss in class today you will read about the difference between passionate love and companionate love watch “romantic” video clips below read article compassionate and passionate love jerry maquire movie “you complete me” scene. Start studying passionate love vs companionate love learn vocabulary, terms, and more with flashcards, games, and other study tools.
This fun love test is used to help determine what kind of compassionate, loving relationship you are in it provides a free, anonymous, instant score. 2 compassionate leave leave granted, esp to a serviceman, on the grounds of bereavement, family illness, etc. Companionate love compassionate love is when two people first fall in love, they often have an intense passion for each other they want to touch all the time, kiss all the time, and have very absorbing feelings, like floating on a cloud. Compassionate love has been identified as one of the major types of love experienced in relationships (berscheid, 2010), but one that has been overshadowed by the study of romantic love.
Compassionate love, sometimes also called altruistic love, has been a topic of scientific interest and research since the 1990s it is also closely related to the construct of unlimited love that has been expounded by stephen g post compassionate love refers to love that centers on the good of the other (p 3, underwood, 2008) it is. Before we can generate compassion and love, it is important to have a clear understanding of what we understand compassion and love to be in simple terms, compassion and love can be defined as positive thoughts and feelings that give rise to such essential things in life as hope, courage, determination, and inner strength. The compassion scale was administered along with the sprecher and fehr's compassionate love to a sample of 310 adults the response rate among the staff, students, and faculty of the charles r drew university was 45. Hendrick’s styles of love more clearly define these differences – the six styles identified are passionate love, compassionate love, playing game love, possessive love, logical love, and selfless love (baron, & bryne, 2004.
Compassionate love is “an attitude toward other(s), either close others or strangers or all of humanity containing feelings, cognitions, and behaviors that are focused on caring concern, tenderness, and an orientation toward supporting, helping, and understanding the other(s),. Objectives this study examined if compassionate love (cl) predicts hiv disease progression and transmission risk scientific study of cl emerged with underwood’s working model of other-centered cl, defining five criteria: free choice, cognitive understanding, valuing/empowering, openness/receptivity for spirituality, and response of the heart. Compassionate love describes attitudes toward and service for others, motivated by a desire for the good of the other it includes caring for, valuing, and respecting the person so loved the combination of the two words compassionate and love highlights features in both words: this combination.
Ideally, passionate love then leads to compassionate love, which is far more enduring while most people desire relationships that combine the security and stability of compassionate with intense passionate love, hatfield believes that this is rare. We also need to cultivate the presence of kindness, compassion and love – toward ourselves, toward others, and toward the inevitable unwanted, painful and otherwise distressing experiences in life there are two especially important ways of loving others and ourselves, known to all of the religious and spiritual traditions of the world. Compassion is the broader word: it refers to both an understanding of another’s pain and the desire to somehow mitigate that pain: our rationalizations for lying (or withholding the truth)—to protect her, he could never handle it”—come more out of cowardice than compassion. Compassionate love can be measured at least now it can, with this paper having published a compassionate love synchrony and the social tuning of compassion valdesolo and desteno suggest that synchronized movement evokes compassion and altruistic behavior toward victims of more studies keys to well-being.